As you can see, I am posting this blog pretty late because my computer decided to take a crap on me last night. But my brilliant uncle got it working again! Or maybe it is more like, damn, he got it working again.. haha. But anyways, the reason why I am calling this post the worst weekend ever, is because it honestly was. For those of you who read my post a couple ago, it was about my parents getting a divorce. And this weekend was the finalization of that. Even though I knew it was coming up, deep down I still had that hope that they were not going to go through with it. But they did. I stay at my moms on the weekends, so when she came home that night, she was just a mess! And on top of that, I was going through some problems in my relationship, and my boyfriend and I ended up breaking up. This Christmas break would have been two years for us.. so it sucks really bad. But hey, gotta take it one day at a time. We have still talked once day sense the break up, because we both really want to be friends. Especially because of the reason why we broke up. With everything going on in my family, I told him that I have just been extremely stressed with trying to make time for my family, considering it is scattered all over now, and I need some time to find myself again. My parents divorce has really made me think different about relationships, and I know that is not good..
But anyways, on top of that, I had to drive my moms car to meet Tyler in order to talk about all of this, and we met at one of the gas stations in town. Our plan was to get some coffee, and we would take off in his truck and go somewhere that we could talk. So I kept my moms car parked at the gas station. Little did I think that it was Friday night, so there was a football game going on and that place is always packed when the game is over. So when I got back somebody had completely destroyed my mom front bumper! And of course they took off. But the thing is, I hadn't even noticed it. It was when it was parked in the garage and my brother came home and said something. I was like, what are you talking about? But soon I realized exactly what he was talking about. My mom was soo mad at me. So long story short, I called the gas station to tell them that there was a hit and run with my moms car, and that they needed to check their cameras. The lady said that there they couldn't
look at the cameras themselves, and that they had to get special permission from their manager in order to make a request for the video to be sent in. But of course, the manager doesn't work on weekends. So we had to wait until Monday morning to hear from them.
Still no call.
Tuesday, October 28, 2014
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez are Getting Married?
Okay, so I know there is probably a lot of you that are like, "seriously Jen, Bieber?" But I just had to look into this more! I am a cashier at grocery/hardware store, and when I don't really have anything to do, I tend to look at the newest drama in the famous life. Ugghhhh, to be famous.......
Anyways, when I was looking at all the magazines, I came across the headline of "Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Engaged", and my reaction to this was, "What!? seriously, what is wrong with you Selena!" I did some more research on it, and I found I few different things. Some say that they seen Justin ring shopping. Other articles say that they have seen her wearing a wedding band, and that they already may be married. Not to mention, apparently, Selena is also pregnant with Justin's baby.
Justin was caught ring shopping on June 24 and now a new report claims that he has in fact popped the question! But has he already broke Selena’s one condition to saying yes by hanging out with Chantel Jeffries and other girls?
A lot can change in a week. On June 24, Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez were living out their Romeo & Juliet fantasy and he was looking for the perfect ring give to her. But on June 30, Chantel Jeffries was the one on Justin’s arm. So what happened to Justin’s proposal? Did he already break his “Til death do you part” bond with Selena? -By Andrew Gruttadaro
“Justin absolutely believes that when the time is right, he’ll stick a ring on Selena’s finger,” a source reveals to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. “And when he does, it will be the best of the best. He’s said he would spend up to a million dollars on an engagement ring for her.”
So would Selena, 22, say yes, despite all the pain and heartache Justin has put her through over the years, and especially recently?
"Selena loves the big gestures so as much as he’s messed up with her, knowing her, she’d say yes to that kind of thing,” our source says. “He knows how to sweep her off her feet when he wants to.” -By Bonnie Faller.
Honestly Selena, just move on, he is just using you.
Anyways, when I was looking at all the magazines, I came across the headline of "Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Engaged", and my reaction to this was, "What!? seriously, what is wrong with you Selena!" I did some more research on it, and I found I few different things. Some say that they seen Justin ring shopping. Other articles say that they have seen her wearing a wedding band, and that they already may be married. Not to mention, apparently, Selena is also pregnant with Justin's baby.
Justin was caught ring shopping on June 24 and now a new report claims that he has in fact popped the question! But has he already broke Selena’s one condition to saying yes by hanging out with Chantel Jeffries and other girls?
A lot can change in a week. On June 24, Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez were living out their Romeo & Juliet fantasy and he was looking for the perfect ring give to her. But on June 30, Chantel Jeffries was the one on Justin’s arm. So what happened to Justin’s proposal? Did he already break his “Til death do you part” bond with Selena? -By Andrew Gruttadaro
“Justin absolutely believes that when the time is right, he’ll stick a ring on Selena’s finger,” a source reveals to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY. “And when he does, it will be the best of the best. He’s said he would spend up to a million dollars on an engagement ring for her.”
So would Selena, 22, say yes, despite all the pain and heartache Justin has put her through over the years, and especially recently?
"Selena loves the big gestures so as much as he’s messed up with her, knowing her, she’d say yes to that kind of thing,” our source says. “He knows how to sweep her off her feet when he wants to.” -By Bonnie Faller.
Honestly Selena, just move on, he is just using you.
Monday, October 13, 2014
A Divorce in My Family
My parents had been married for over twenty years, had three children, and are currently going through a divorce. Kind of ironic that I chose Relationships as my topic...
The last year has been nothing but hell for me and my brother and sister. My parents have done nothing but argue the last six months that my dad was still living with us, and now even though he is currently moved out, we are still stuck in the middle of everything that's going on.
In case you are wondering, I am writing about this because when I came home today, I had to hear more about lawyers, and what parent is trying to do or get from the other. So I just thought I would get this off my chest a little.
For all the other kids whose parents are divorced, I honestly have no idea how you do it. Everyone keeps telling me that it gets a lot better over time. And I'm sure it does, but it seems to be taking forever! Some have even told me that it can be nice because you get to have two birthdays and holidays. Well let me tell you right now, your wrong, and it absolutely sucks. The last Christmas that we had, my dad wasn't there with the rest of my family, and I was completely heartbroken. My sister cried all night, and wouldn't talk to anyone. I can't believe that the rest of my life is going to be like that on Holidays and birthdays.
Before any of this happened, my plan was to always attend school at Delta because it was wasn't that far from home if I needed something, and mainly because we just can't afford a university. But I was always super excited because I have family in Saginaw that I planned on living with, my aunt and uncle, and then I would just be able to go home every weekend. But now sense my parents are splitting, I am currently living in three different places. I live with my dad two days of the week, my aunt two days of the week, and my mom on the weekends. My head explodes every single time I have to plan out my week, and it's a huge pain in the ass to keep up with all the things that I have to pack to go from place to place.
I hope and pray everyday that this bump in my path will soon come to an end. It sucks so bad knowing that I am trying to move on with my life, but my brother and sister are still there.. There are many days that I feel awful because I feel as if I have just left them, and have no time for them because of living in three different places. It has been so difficult making everyone happy.
I just wish that I could go back to when we were a family...
The last year has been nothing but hell for me and my brother and sister. My parents have done nothing but argue the last six months that my dad was still living with us, and now even though he is currently moved out, we are still stuck in the middle of everything that's going on.
In case you are wondering, I am writing about this because when I came home today, I had to hear more about lawyers, and what parent is trying to do or get from the other. So I just thought I would get this off my chest a little.
For all the other kids whose parents are divorced, I honestly have no idea how you do it. Everyone keeps telling me that it gets a lot better over time. And I'm sure it does, but it seems to be taking forever! Some have even told me that it can be nice because you get to have two birthdays and holidays. Well let me tell you right now, your wrong, and it absolutely sucks. The last Christmas that we had, my dad wasn't there with the rest of my family, and I was completely heartbroken. My sister cried all night, and wouldn't talk to anyone. I can't believe that the rest of my life is going to be like that on Holidays and birthdays.
Before any of this happened, my plan was to always attend school at Delta because it was wasn't that far from home if I needed something, and mainly because we just can't afford a university. But I was always super excited because I have family in Saginaw that I planned on living with, my aunt and uncle, and then I would just be able to go home every weekend. But now sense my parents are splitting, I am currently living in three different places. I live with my dad two days of the week, my aunt two days of the week, and my mom on the weekends. My head explodes every single time I have to plan out my week, and it's a huge pain in the ass to keep up with all the things that I have to pack to go from place to place.
I hope and pray everyday that this bump in my path will soon come to an end. It sucks so bad knowing that I am trying to move on with my life, but my brother and sister are still there.. There are many days that I feel awful because I feel as if I have just left them, and have no time for them because of living in three different places. It has been so difficult making everyone happy.
I just wish that I could go back to when we were a family...
Monday, October 6, 2014
Why Women Cheat
Last week I listed and explained why men cheat. So this week, I am going to do just the opposite.
Why do women cheat?? I personally think that girls cheat because they are missing some kind of emotional piece. But trust me, I am not making an excuse at all for girls. Cheating is wrong. Whether he does it, or she does it. And just so you know, most of the research that I found was mainly toward married women. I was hoping to find information on unmarried couples so most of you could relate, but this is what I got!
Four Reason why Women Cheat:
A man who compliments her, shows interest in her emotionally, tells her she is beautiful. A man who looks at her and sees something other than a mother, housekeeper and wife. A woman who is having issues with low self-esteem is a sitting duck for a man like this.
There was a research done on a couple who had no children, and they both worked extremely hard to have the big house and the nice cars. The lifestyle they thought would make them happy. Only problem is, they are working so hard to accumulate things that they are neglecting their relationship with each other. There is no romance in their marriage and any emotional attachments are to the “things” they’ve acquired over the years. The wife even admitted that she started to feel "lonely through the years." What happens when a woman feels lonely and no emotional attachment to her husband? She goes looking for emotional attachment elsewhere.
A woman who has been devoted to her husband for years and putting her marriage and family first, found out that her husband was cheating on her with a young lover and planned on revenge from that day. She went to Victoria’s Secret, charged hundreds of dollars in lingerie and then found someone other than her husband to show it all off to. Her husband got the bill!
If she isn’t getting sex at home, don’t be surprised if she goes looking for it outside the marriage. As men age their testosterone levels drop. When this happens they become less interested in sex or develop sexual dysfunction. and are unable to perform. A wife ends up with a husband who would rather watch football or read a good book at bedtime than have sex with his wife.
I actually really enjoyed doing this research on the women much more than on the men. I found myself more interested in why women cheat, and their feelings behind it. I even laughed out loud when I read the story about the woman catching her husband cheating, and she bought hundreds of dollars in lingerie for someone else to see it, and sent him the bill. LMAO moment!!!!!!!
Why do women cheat?? I personally think that girls cheat because they are missing some kind of emotional piece. But trust me, I am not making an excuse at all for girls. Cheating is wrong. Whether he does it, or she does it. And just so you know, most of the research that I found was mainly toward married women. I was hoping to find information on unmarried couples so most of you could relate, but this is what I got!
Four Reason why Women Cheat:
- Low Self-Esteem
A man who compliments her, shows interest in her emotionally, tells her she is beautiful. A man who looks at her and sees something other than a mother, housekeeper and wife. A woman who is having issues with low self-esteem is a sitting duck for a man like this.
- The Emotionally Starved Wife
- The Angry Wife
A woman who has been devoted to her husband for years and putting her marriage and family first, found out that her husband was cheating on her with a young lover and planned on revenge from that day. She went to Victoria’s Secret, charged hundreds of dollars in lingerie and then found someone other than her husband to show it all off to. Her husband got the bill!
- The Wife who seeks Excitement
- The Sexually Deprived Wife
If she isn’t getting sex at home, don’t be surprised if she goes looking for it outside the marriage. As men age their testosterone levels drop. When this happens they become less interested in sex or develop sexual dysfunction. and are unable to perform. A wife ends up with a husband who would rather watch football or read a good book at bedtime than have sex with his wife.I actually really enjoyed doing this research on the women much more than on the men. I found myself more interested in why women cheat, and their feelings behind it. I even laughed out loud when I read the story about the woman catching her husband cheating, and she bought hundreds of dollars in lingerie for someone else to see it, and sent him the bill. LMAO moment!!!!!!!
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